The early days subscribed to us,
     first warming to our blandishments,
but we, having practiceed praise
     in front of mirrors
and knowing how to give as well as
     to take no for an answer, retreated.

It’s not as if we backed out
     of the parlor like a damaged widower
looking mournfully at the baby grand
     now forever silent in the alcove,
it’s not as if we took one last look
     at the sober portrait above the mantel.