{"id":91357,"date":"2015-10-28T13:57:15","date_gmt":"2015-10-28T17:57:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/?p=91357"},"modified":"2015-10-28T13:57:15","modified_gmt":"2015-10-28T17:57:15","slug":"the-gay-lothario","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/2015\/10\/28\/the-gay-lothario\/","title":{"rendered":"The Gay Lothario"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_91368\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/gay_lothario.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-91368\" class=\"wp-image-91368 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/gay_lothario.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"424\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/gay_lothario.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/gay_lothario-300x212.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 62.5em) 67vw, 100vw\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-91368\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A caricature of Coates as Lothario.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Strange as it seems now, there was a time when I was responsible for writing a best- and worst-dressed list. I had no qualifications, I felt uncomfortable doing it, and I admired extravagantly those celebrities who had the gall to flout convention and throw themselves squarely into the \u201cbad\u201d category like early Christian martyrs among lions.\u00a0I was reminded of this unlikely interlude in my career while looking at the fashions from this weekend\u2019s\u00a0MTV Europe Music Awards, many extravagantly ludicrous. Visible underwear! Macram\u00e9! Polychrome! Monochrome! Bieber! The mind boggled, the soul leaped.<\/p>\n<p>A pilloried celeb is usually defiant, and understandably. There are varying degrees of ingenuousness often correlated to the degree of celebrity involved, but the gist is usually: haters be damned. The best of all sartorial retorts, though, belongs to the celebrated London macaroni and amateur of drama, Mr. Robert \u201cRomeo\u201d Coates, whose early nineteenth-century exploits are chronicled in Edith Sitwell\u2019s peerless\u00a0<em>English Eccentrics<\/em>.\u00a0<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Coates rode in a magnificent blue curricle shaped like a scallop shell, with many-hued wheels; the man himself was decked in furs and diamonds. Beneath the furs he wears a \u201cblue surtout coat, handsomely ornamented with frog braid, and a high shirt collar, around which is tied a rich colored bandana handkerchief. His legs are encased in well-wrinkled hessian boots, whose tops are ornamented with large tassels.\u201d Coates also carried a jewel-studded Romeo costume with him all the time, in case someone wanted him to leap up and give them a soliloquy. Or, for that matter, if they didn\u2019t\u2014which is part of why his dandified trappings came in for a certain amount of criticism. Here was his response:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>In regard to the innumerable attacks that have been made upon my lineaments and person in the public prints, I have only to observe, that as I was fashioned by the Creator, independent of my will, I cannot be responsible for that result which I could not control. If the gentlemen who amused themselves in this\u00a0<em>noble<\/em>\u00a0way can derive either pleasure or profit from the indulgence of such desires, I regard the liberty of the Press as the keystone of that arch upon which our glorious constitution reposes in security; and I will not lightly question the extent of that liberty because envy, folly, or even a viler passion may stimulate a blockhead to violate the purity of such a privilege.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Oh, exhibitionists. The world would be a duller place without you.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>Sadie Stein is contributing editor of <\/em>The Paris Review<em>, and the <\/em>Daily<em>\u2019s correspondent.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Strange as it seems now, there was a time when I was responsible for writing a best- and worst-dressed list. 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