{"id":47916,"date":"2013-03-07T11:38:24","date_gmt":"2013-03-07T16:38:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/?p=47916"},"modified":"2013-03-08T15:49:11","modified_gmt":"2013-03-08T20:49:11","slug":"the-art-of-losing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/2013\/03\/07\/the-art-of-losing\/","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Losing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Southernmost-Point-Key-West722.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-47920\" alt=\"Southernmost-Point-Key-West722\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Southernmost-Point-Key-West722-300x226.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"226\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Southernmost-Point-Key-West722-300x226.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Southernmost-Point-Key-West722.jpg 615w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 62.5em) 67vw, 100vw\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Writers often hate talking about the book they\u2019ve just written. On the one hand, books are an exercise in preservation, an old-fashioned sort of external hard drive. But for the author personally, a book can also be an elaborate act of forgetting. I wonder sometimes whether I\u2019m driven to write about certain things, especially difficult things, just so I\u2019ll never have to deal with them again; I\u2019ll capture my subject and be done with it. From a particular angle, the writing life for me is a gradual process of self-erasure\u2014first the crisp details go, then the plot, the underlying obsessions\u2014or else each book is a box in which something of myself can be stored away forever.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve never felt this shrinking, unpublic side of writing as strongly as I have with the book about real-life murders I just finished\u2014work it\u2019s just not possible for me to be \u201cdone with.\u201d The book tells the stories of killings, but I didn\u2019t want to recount the cases with the heavy hand typical of stories that turn on crime and justice. The buffoonish, Wayne LaPierre\u2013esque division of the world into good guys and bad guys may be an easy, reflexive way to organize the life around us, a busy firing of synapses that adds up to something less than thinking. I never saw the point of it, but I admit, in this instance, it would have made terrible stories easier to forget.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s stressful to keep in the forefront of our minds how real lives are pixelated with good and bad acts. It\u2019s even worse when the real lives you\u2019re writing about belong to murderers, and the acts\u2014at least one of them\u2014are as bad as possible. After all my research and all the interviews, I felt the weariness I imagine sin-eaters feel\u2014the people who take responsibility for the world\u2019s sinful deeds so others won\u2019t have to. <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Some of the murderers I wrote about are still living their lives, however reduced they are to the grim routines of prison. I started relationships with these men mostly through correspondence. It seems right to keep the letter-writing going, but, to be honest, it\u2019s hard now that the excitement of discovery\u2014no matter how dark\u2014is over. Already a year ago, one killer wrote me petulantly, \u201cOh, so once you get your story, you\u2019re done with me.\u201d I\u2019d let too much time slide before responding to a letter of his. Sheepishly, he later wrote, \u201cIgnore that last letter.\u201d The exchange sounds like anyone\u2019s quotidian spat, yet this is a man with a psychopathic streak a mile wide. His murder of a gay man involved an hours-long beating that can only be called torture. Not easy to forget, but easier when forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>Elizabeth Bishop\u2019s \u201cOne Art,\u201d from 1976 (\u201cThe art of losing isn\u2019t hard to master\u201d), has become something of an anthem among literary types, a \u201chit\u201d poem for this turn of the century as \u201cRecessional\u201d or \u201cDover Beach,\u201d two other hymns involving loss, were for the last turn of the century. I recently heard Colm T\u00f3ib\u00edn recite the poem during a lecture he gave in Key West for a mostly elderly audience. The reading was especially moving given the age and accumulated experience of the listeners. But I was struck by the poem\u2019s oddity. A villanelle (in which, of course, lines return as incessantly as memories), it describes a kind of ecstasy of deliberate forgetting.<\/p>\n<p>We expect our poets to remain preternaturally aware and sensitive even while the rest of us shut down with age. Far from being a celebration of alertness or even of keen mourning like \u201cRecessional,\u201d \u201cOne Art\u201d extols the brand of self-repressed forgetfulness that beatniks or bohemians would have deemed insufferably bourgeois, if not senile. On the surface, the art of \u201cOne Art\u201d isn\u2019t like art at all. It\u2019s the opposite of preservation.<\/p>\n<p>Bishop was no lazy pseudothinker, no suburban automaton; she was no Wayne LaPierre. It was heartening for me (someone addicted both to art and to occasional shutting down) to hear her bracing, almost giddy counsel to put away parts of our lives. Of course, there\u2019s a winking quality to the advice, and Bishop seems to take pleasure in the anti-artistic implications of her poem. But \u201cOne Art\u201d acknowledges that we aren\u2019t divided into artists and bourgeois cattle any more than we\u2019re divided into good guys and bad guys. Her work doesn\u2019t allow for the bohemian\u2019s \u201cthem and us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Moving from torture to poetry, from LaPierre to Bishop, is liable to induce dizziness. But everything I relish in life is woven out of such disparate threads. Even my days, like everyone\u2019s, are made up of sleep and wakefulness, and both are important. Even if I can\u2019t quite shake the murders I wrote about, at least I can put them away for a while. Now that they\u2019re safely in a book, I can momentarily erase them from myself.<\/p>\n<p>The sage, sly writer Edmund White tells a wonderful anecdote about the poet James Merrill (in whose old Key West cottage I\u2019m writing this article!). An acquaintance longed to meet the eminent poet, so White dutifully phoned to set something up. Merrill, who\u2019d just finished his masterwork, <em>The Changing Light at Sandover<\/em>, drawled his agreement, then added, \u201cBut why would anyone want to? What\u2019s there to meet?\u201d His monumental act of creativity had been akin to emptying himself.<\/p>\n<p>Here in this beautiful waxed wood room filled with four o\u2019clock sunlight and the subtle hum of an overhead fan, I couldn\u2019t be further from the sordid American underworld I\u2019ve spent much of the past three years exploring. All is refinement and culture. When my neighbor visits, he points to a spot by the kitchenette where Leonard Bernstein once played the piano or to another corner where Elizabeth Taylor stood laughing during one of \u201cJimmy\u2019s\u201d parties. Elizabeth Bishop herself was a frequent visitor to the house, so it\u2019s a good place to reflect on \u201cOne Art.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In the delightfully floral, bibulous, lazy world of Key West, I live a part of my life that seems utterly irreconcilable with the murderers I\u2019ve come to know, the stories I\u2019ve written about them, the letters I owe them. I forget for a while, but I know it will all come back to me, like the repeating lines of a particularly clangorous American villanelle.<\/p>\n<p><em>David McConnell\u2019s most recent book is <\/em>American Honor Killings: Desire and Rage Among Men<em> (Akashic Books). He is also the author of the acclaimed novel, <\/em>The Silver Hearted<em>, 2010. His short fiction and journalism have appeared widely in magazines and anthologies, including <\/em>The Literary Review<em> (UK), <\/em>Granta<em> and <\/em>Prospect Magazine <em>(UK). His novel <\/em>The Firebrat<em> came out in 2003. He\u2019s the former co-chair of the Lambda Literary Foundation. McConnell lives in New York City.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><br \/><\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Writers often hate talking about the book they\u2019ve just written. On the one hand, books are an exercise in preservation, an old-fashioned sort of external hard drive. But for the author personally, a book can also be an elaborate act of forgetting. 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