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Meaning that, as a result of the divorce happening long-distance in a kind of pandemic limbo period, and us meeting very soon after it, for the early stretch of our relationship many of her things were still in the house just outside of Belfast.<\/span><\/p>\nAfter the second or third time I stumbled across a wicker handbag or a drawer of beauty products or, once,<\/span> underwear <\/span><\/i>(polyester)<\/span>,<\/span><\/i> I became alert to her things, seeking out and cataloguing items like they were pieces of evidence from a crime scene. Brown spray bottles labeled \u201ccitrus cleaner\u201d and \u201cdisinfectent\u201d [sic], with labels printed using a label maker. Patent beige open-toed stilettos with brittle-looking heels. Clothes, a couple of dresses, all slightly floral; she is thinner than me. A set of very large\u2014I consider them comically large\u2014cocktail glasses. A crate-size box of \u201cenvironmentally friendly\u201d toilet rolls with marketing copy reading \u201cwho gives a crap,\u201d addressed to Mrs. T (Mrs.!). Wedding photos, in desktop frames bought from Next. A cheerful book on adult crafting for mental health. I could keep going, and for months, talking to friends, I did, until I could feel them start to try to edge me toward other topics or edge themselves away from this one.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nBut then there were her plates. They were a set of around ten, made by her as gifts for him, vaguely artisanal craft-fair pieces in speckled white and muted blue. There is not a way to say this without sounding like a snob, but it feels relevant that she was not a potter or ceramicist in the sense that she made money from it or did it prolifically, or that the pieces she made were fully functional for their intended use. Pottery was an aspiration, a hobby that might become something more, and the plates reflected this. Tasteful but not imaginative, each one was a clear attempt at an ideal of a plate: marginally different sizes, visibly honed edges, glazes dripping slightly over rims.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nIt was obvious that the rest of her things had to go, but the plates felt different. They were undeniably hers\u2014as her creations they represented maybe the truest essence of her\u2014but they were not quite her possessions; she had given them to him as gifts. It felt like the healthy thing to do was accept them. Everyone has a past. And so they stayed stacked in their drawer. Still, they grated on me, and I looked for ways to belittle them. It helped that there is a type of woman who gets into pottery.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nLong after I assumed that all her stuff was gone, I found an easel. Mockingly, \u201cWhat did she paint?\u201d \u201cShe\u2019d been able to make these amazing paintings as a child, so she was trying to\u2014\u201d \u201cDon\u2019t most children paint things?\u201d \u201cNo, I mean I saw these, they really were incredible. But she could never do it again as an adult.\u201d I pictured him in her family home, being taken up to the attic to admire a series of paintings done by a child, his role closer to that of a parent, awed by a drawing they can stick on the fridge, than to that of a lover or a husband. I thought of the plates, the base of each one stamped with a <\/span>K<\/span><\/i> for her name.<\/span><\/p>\nOne day, by chance, I was served his divorce papers. Well, nearly. A bald man came to the door and asked to speak to S., who was not home. I said: \u201cNot sure, I don\u2019t know.\u201d Later, when S. was home, the man came back and, even with the passport copy he\u2019d been given to help identify S., he seemed a little startled by how young my boyfriend is. The man gestured at me as he came inside and said, \u201cI\u2019m sure she\u2019ll be happy about this,\u201d and I could tell he thought it was\u00a0 funny. I do too. As they both stood at the table, the man turning each page and pointing at where to sign, I sat pretending to read, biting back laughter at the pageantry of it all. I looked it up: you don\u2019t even need to serve divorce papers in the UK, so this really was a statement. I could see her sipping a fruity cocktail at a waterfront bar in Brisbane, dressed up for the occasion: I served divorce papers today. I thought about my parents\u2019 divorce, the sheer hostility of twenty years, a house, four kids. <\/span>Something happens to men at this age, it\u2019s like a chemical switch.<\/span><\/i> What was the point of it all? All that time that turned out to be wasted and now all of a sudden I am old, what was I holding on for <\/span>but I did it for you, for my children. <\/span><\/i>I thought about the plates.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nAt yet another wistful dinner with his parents where his mother will go out of her way to get me on my own so she can tell me how <\/span>very painful <\/span><\/i>his divorce is, for all of them of course, and how, though he was \u201cabsolutely mad about her,\u201d he has to \u201clearn to start letting her go,\u201d I start to feel irritation\u2014no, I mean fury. She is wrapping him up in tape marked \u201cdamaged goods\u201d and handing him to me, a companion, to fix. Why does K. get to be the whirlwind? I say, \u201cI\u2019m going to get a glass of water,\u201d and walk through the parents\u2019 garden and into their large open plan kitchen. I start opening cupboards and turning plates upside down to see if they have their own set of<\/span> K<\/span><\/i>\u2019s. I\u2019m not sure what I will do if I find them.<\/span><\/p>\nI wrote a different version of this once. In it, I break a plate by accident while washing up (I am a big enough person to use the plates day-to-day), and in that accidental act I realize that they are just plates, that they\u2019re breakable, so I set about a subtle campaign to cleanse the house of the plates very slowly, over months or even years: \u201cWhoops! That\u2019s another plate gone, aren\u2019t I clumsy!\u201d Of course, life is usually uglier. How it really went: <\/span>another argument about another one of her things, <\/span>I tear down the stairs, I lift a plate from the kitchen drawer, hold it up and smash it on the floor. Then another and another, lift and break, lift and break. In my memory of it I am laughing, I am screaming with joy and release. S. stands back, silent, until finally, as I go to lift another, he reaches one arm forward and says, \u201cThey\u2019re gone. You\u2019re just breaking every plate we have now.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n
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