{"id":134206,"date":"2019-03-07T11:00:56","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T16:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/?p=134206"},"modified":"2019-03-07T15:13:08","modified_gmt":"2019-03-07T20:13:08","slug":"poetry-rx-suddenly-something-snaps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/2019\/03\/07\/poetry-rx-suddenly-something-snaps\/","title":{"rendered":"Poetry Rx: Suddenly Something Snaps"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>In our column\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/category\/columns\/poetry-rx\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Poetry Rx<\/a>, readers\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:advice@theparisreview.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">write in<\/a>\u00a0with a specific emotion, and our resident poets\u2014Sarah Kay, Kaveh Akbar, and Claire Schwartz\u2014take turns prescribing the perfect poems to match. This week,\u00a0Kaveh Akbar is on the line.<\/i><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_132241\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\">\n<div id=\"attachment_132241\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/poetry_rx_2-1024x493-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-132241\" class=\"wp-image-132241 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/poetry_rx_2-1024x493-1-1024x493.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"493\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/poetry_rx_2-1024x493-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/poetry_rx_2-1024x493-1-300x144.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/poetry_rx_2-1024x493-1-768x370.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 62.5em) 67vw, 100vw\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-132241\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u00a9 ELLIS ROSEN<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><em>Dear Poets,\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s been a long road of broken partnerships. Now, at the ripe age of sixty, I finally see the thread that ran through my disappointing and hurtful romantic choices. I had always found the wounded and the angry ones exciting. Oh my, the endless compromises. Today, I have found myself with a happy man. So simple, so drama-free, and so damn exciting. I would love a poem that addressed the journey that can lead to companionship and the love that can come when lives have been lived and time seems to be palpably limited.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Xo,<br \/>\n<\/em><em>Wallowing in Love<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Dear WiL,<\/p>\n<p>I am so heartened to hear you\u2019ve found, at last, a partner who nourishes and celebrates you! The little phrase in your letter, \u201cOh my, the endless compromises\u201d was such a rending moment\u2014I hear so much knowledge, painfully acquired, in that little utterance.<\/p>\n<p>To celebrate you, to celebrate your joy, I give you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.poets.org\/poetsorg\/poem\/happenstance\">Rita Dove\u2019s \u201cHappenstance<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>When you appeared it was as if<br \/>\nmagnets cleared the air.<br \/>\nI had never seen that smile before<br \/>\nor your hair, flying silver.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>As soon as I read your letter, I thought of the first two lines of this poem\u2014the sudden rush of clarity, relief, awe that comes when you finally set eyes on someone truly worthy of your cherishing. The poem takes place in an instant, in an instant of an instant, the time it takes to call out a name.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I called softly so you could choose<br \/>\nnot to answer\u2014then called again.<br \/>\nYou turned in the light, your eyes<br \/>\nseeking your name.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>But of course the poem really takes place over a lifetime, lifetime enough for hair to \u201cfly silver,\u201d for yearning to have been made wise by despair. What an occasion for gratitude, then, that such yearning should at last be met in the light. I am so happy for you, Wallowing. May your days of endless concessions be over.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014K. A.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">*<\/p>\n<p><em>Dear Poets,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I\u2019m the mother of two young, beautiful boys and I\u2019m devastated that I think my relationship with their father has to end. We bring out the worst in each other. I feel guilty, and sad that their little world is about to shift so drastically. I don\u2019t want them to suffer because their parents have forgotten how to love each other. But I also have a sliver of hope that maybe, after I recover, I\u2019ll be able to be the happy, playful mother I expected to be. Do you think that\u2019s possible?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Thank you,<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Hopeful Mama<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dear HM,<\/p>\n<p>For you, I offer Jack Gilbert\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.poets.org\/poetsorg\/poem\/failing-and-flying\">\u201cFailing and Flying<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>How can they say<br \/>\nthe marriage failed? Like the people who<br \/>\ncame back from Provence (when it was Provence)<br \/>\nand said it was pretty but the food was greasy.<br \/>\nI believe Icarus was not failing as he fell,<br \/>\nbut just coming to the end of his triumph.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Gilbert offers an alternative way to look at the dissolution of a romantic relationship. You and your beloved went to Provence! You created two beautiful boys! That is triumph. And while yours may no longer be a shared romantic journey, the separate paths you find yourselves on now will be made richer for having known that achievement.<\/p>\n<p>To answer your question plainly: yes, of course it\u2019s possible you\u2019ll now be able to recover into a happier, more joyful mother. I\u2019d go so far as to say I expect it\u2019s even likely. You\u2019ve come to the difficult but, from the sounds of it, necessary decision to extricate yourself from a partnership that is no longer serving you or your boys. Over time, I expect you\u2019ll be able to focus the resources (temporal, psychic, financial) you had been spending to keep your relationship afloat onto celebrating your own triumphs, and the triumphs of your boys.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014K.A.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">*<\/p>\n<p><em>Dear Poets,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I am a middle school English teacher. I love my job, my subject, my classroom, and, of course, my students. \u00a0But this is an utterly one-sided love; my students are alternately bored or tortured by my presence. So often, I feel as if I am pouring all my emotion, creativity, and intellectual passion into a void. Yet I cannot be resentful, because of course I should have no expectation that sixty-four young adolescents would be brimming with appreciation for the work I do or for my devotion to them. And yet \u2026 and yet \u2026 some days I just wish I could read a poem that captures the heartbreak of the teacher who loves, but is not loved in return. Does this poem exist?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Sincerely,<br \/>\nThe English Teacher<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dear English Teacher,<\/p>\n<p>Ahh, thank you for this. As a former middle school English teacher myself, I am abundantly familiar with the frustration voiced in your letter. It\u2019s a frustration most succinctly captured, I think, in Russell Edson\u2019s \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.poetryfoundation.org\/poems\/50846\/the-academic-sigh\">The Academic Sigh<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Some students were stretching a professor on a medieval torture rack. He had offered himself to show them how an academic might be stretched beyond his wildest dreams like a piece of chewing gum.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Of course, it\u2019s a professor in the poem, but Edson\u2019s poem works doubly well for K\u201312 teachers. I remember so clearly that interminable, thankless stretching. I remember too the condescension from my friends in other disciplines\u2014how I graded into the night and their tone when they said, \u201cOh, it\u2019s so <em>good <\/em>that you do that,\u201d the way they\u2019d commend someone for picking up a piece of litter on the side of a road.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Suddenly something snaps.<br \/>\nWhat happened? sighs the professor from the rack.<br \/>\nWe were just stretching an academic when suddenly something snapped; you may have heard it &#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Ultimately, I always came back to one simple idea: it was my job to love my students, but it was not their job to love me. It\u2019s an easy understanding to articulate and infinitely difficult understanding to fully embrace. It&#8217;s a kind of horizonal Zen koan you march toward forever and, as though it were the horizon, never actually meet.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, sometimes, as you know, they surprise you\u2014a shockingly exemplary work from your most vocal antagonist, or an earnest and heartfelt letter from the student who never spoke in class. That\u2019s the gas in the tank. Your first priority should be caring for yourself so that you can continue to find those moments that make all the stretching worthwhile, to build a sustainable pedagogy that\u2019ll keep you from \u201csnapping\u201d like Edson\u2019s teacher.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014K. A.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><i>Want more? Read earlier\u00a0installments of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/category\/columns\/poetry-rx\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Poetry Rx<\/a>.\u00a0<\/i>Need a poem?\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:advice@theparisreview.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Write to us<\/a>! In the next installment, Sarah Kay will be answering questions.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kaveh Akbar\u2019s poems have appeared recently in\u00a0<\/em>The\u00a0<span class=\"m_480695640686417858m_1889547882999523919gmail-il\">New<\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"m_480695640686417858m_1889547882999523919gmail-il\">Yorker<\/span><em>,<\/em>\u00a0Poetry<em>,<\/em>\u00a0<em>t<\/em><em>he<\/em>\u00a0<span class=\"m_480695640686417858m_1889547882999523919gmail-il\">New<\/span>\u00a0York Times<em>,<\/em>\u00a0<em>the\u00a0<\/em>Nation<em>,\u00a0and elsewhere. His first book is\u00a0<\/em>Calling a Wolf a Wolf<em>. Born in Tehran, Iran, he teaches at\u00a0<span class=\"m_480695640686417858m_1889547882999523919gmail-il\">Purdue<\/span>\u00a0University and in the low-residency M.F.A. programs at Randolph College and Warren Wilson College.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/eepurl.com\/dkY3AH\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-127376\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/poetrysignupmod.png\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 62.5em) 67vw, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/poetrysignupmod.png 1000w, https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/poetrysignupmod-300x146.png 300w, https:\/\/www.theparisreview.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/poetrysignupmod-768x374.png 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"487\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Poets, I just wish I could read a poem that captures the heartbreak of the teacher who loves, but is not loved in return. 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